If you have tried your hand at being in a relationship with somebody and you found that this really didn’t work out, you are going to be understandably nervous about things in a really big way. The fact of the matter is that starting a new relationship can be nerve wracking for anyone, but it is especially difficult for someone that has just broken up. You are going to be nervous about doing the wrong thing and you would worry that flaws that impacted you in your previous relationship are going to come up again, and you should first start off by acknowledging that these are pretty normal concerns and that pretty much anyone would end up feeling the same way for a wide variety of reasons.
Now, once you have given yourself the space to feel nervous, something that is going to be very important since it will help you get out of the headspace in which you would assume that you are going to mess things up without fail, you should try to go about and think about lessons from past relationships that you might have learned. Don’t be hard on yourself but don’t let yourself off the hook too easily either.
If you recognize your flaws then this means that you are going to be able to work on them and make sure that they have far less of an impact on your current relationship than they might have had on your previous one. This is one of the most important parts of growing up and maturing yet it is something that not enough people end up focusing on which causes its own problems down the line.